The Rosary
Last night we entered the church early and sat up front. The community came later and sat behind us. The feeling to sit in a large church, silently with others is one that creates my heart to feel connected to something beyond.
Though last night as my family and I sat upfront, I did not know who or if anyone was behind us. It was that quiet, that peaceful, a silent night....
When the priest started to say the rosary the response from behind was incredible. Like a tidal wave of love pouring over us, flooding our hearts, washing us of our sorrow, holding us up...
The beauty of living in a small town and witnessing the lives of many interconnected.
Last night I felt joy! I felt the love my father and mother have planted with years of devotion to their faith, their family, friends and community.
Thank you also blogging community for your tremendous support...
I will read the eulogy today. I have gathered courage and a big splash of support from your holding me up these last few months.
I am doubly lucky and it feels so good.

Your words were lovely and so heartfelt. I think your Father's life is a model of how we should act and live. love and prayers, Gayle
Posted by: gayle | 06 May 2008 at 02:09 PM
I have been holding you in my thoughts. Peace be with you.
Posted by: Tina | 06 May 2008 at 05:30 AM
I have never met you, probably never will. but i love your blog. am thinking of you and your family. my motherinlaw died almost exactly a year ago...the rituals of death are so healing and necesary...it comes and goes like waves...be patient with yourself... it is so interesting to watch how those around you deal with grief. Everyone is different, I was fascinated by that, it helped me get out of myself a bit to pay attention to others. Kids are marvelous stress relievers!
Posted by: Kieren | 06 May 2008 at 04:44 AM
So glad you are surrounded by love.
You are courageous and it inspires me.
Continued prayer for you and your family Corey.
Much love.
xo
~c
Posted by: collette | 06 May 2008 at 04:08 AM
Corey,
Just checking in one more time to let you know I've been thinking of you. Glad FH is there to take care of you for a few days.
Posted by: Julie | 06 May 2008 at 03:52 AM
followed you all day like a shadow in silent prayer.....
Posted by: melly | 06 May 2008 at 03:42 AM
May your family continue to feel this hope and love of so many. I have been thinking of you today.
Love and blessings
Posted by: Tammy | 06 May 2008 at 03:02 AM
Dearest Corey, I am so sad to read of your fathers passing, I'm sending you all my love across the miles and know that he is in safe hands with his family. Thinking of you.
Posted by: Maddy | 06 May 2008 at 02:50 AM
May you continue to feel joy.
Posted by: Alina | 06 May 2008 at 01:40 AM
"God never gives us more than we can handle." I'm sure Our Blessed Lady had her arms around all of you. I'm thinking of your mother......
Love and many prayers that others will remember Mom as time passes in the future.
Thank you for helping me to strengthen my faith, giving me a revised outlook on life.
Karen from Wisconsin
Posted by: Karen from Wisconsin farmland | 06 May 2008 at 01:08 AM
I keep you in my thoughts.
Posted by: Merisi | 06 May 2008 at 01:05 AM
I keep you in my thoughts.
Posted by: Merisi | 06 May 2008 at 01:03 AM
I came by to tell you, I'm sending you much love, dear Corey. I want to thank you for your amazing strength, that has helped me so much in the past few weeks.
I continue praying for you and your remarkable family.
Pat
Posted by: Pat | 06 May 2008 at 12:25 AM
Blessings, Corey!
Posted by: Lei | 05 May 2008 at 11:50 PM
The town poured out for my mother's memorial service; it is a wonderful wonderful thing to understand how beloved your father was in his community.
Posted by: tut-tut | 05 May 2008 at 11:47 PM
Just returned from a family reunion to find all that you and yours have experienced. God bless you and all of your loved ones. Sending blessings and light your way. M. Read
Posted by: M. Read | 05 May 2008 at 11:06 PM
sending you peace and light corey. i am holding you and your family in my heart today...
Posted by: liz elayne | 05 May 2008 at 08:23 PM
These words bring tears to my eyes. I know you are going to do a great job today! Continued prayers!
xo
C
Posted by: rochambeau | 05 May 2008 at 08:16 PM
Find comfort in your memories & knowing that right now your papa is indeed in paradise*
Thinking of you and your
family with much love Corey*
it gets a little easier with
each passing day. Xoxo
Posted by: berriehead | 05 May 2008 at 07:04 PM
Hugs, hugs, and more hugs.
Brenda
Posted by: Brenda Kula | 05 May 2008 at 06:45 PM
May peace be with you and your family.
Mim
Posted by: Mim | 05 May 2008 at 06:17 PM
Do not stand at my grave and weep
I am not there. I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow.
I am the diamond glints on snow.
I am the sunlight on ripened grain.
I am the gentle autumn rain.
When you awaken in the morning's hush
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the soft stars that shine at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry;
I am not there, I did not die.
I don't know the author. I wanted to share this with you.
Posted by: Colette | 05 May 2008 at 06:16 PM
Thinking of you today.
Posted by: julie | 05 May 2008 at 05:56 PM
Thinking of you getting ready for the service now. Whatever you say will be just right.
Posted by: Deborah P | 05 May 2008 at 05:51 PM
words fail me, but know i'm thinking of you.
Posted by: shannon in oregon | 05 May 2008 at 05:36 PM
Corey, your mom has been on my mind the last couple days...So many years of love together. Kory's grandmother just passed, and she had been waiting so many years to go to Heaven and be with her her husband.As has been my own grandma the last few years. I know how much your mom is missing your dad right now, even though you have told us how strong she is...I just can't imagine, and my heart goes out to her. Please hug her extra for us. ;)
ox :) blessings.
Posted by: amber | 05 May 2008 at 05:35 PM
Corey, these words just came straight to my mind for you...
"It is the Spirit which quickeneth; the flesh profiteth nothing. (Psalms) It is God's love for you (and your father's) which will continue to uplift and hold onto you through this next part of your journey in life.
Posted by: beachy | 05 May 2008 at 05:34 PM
Wrapping you in the loving embrace of my heart. I am so moved at the uplifting joy your community has sent to you. Be joyful, dear Corey, in the beauty of your father and mother's life and love.
Posted by: Elizabeth | 05 May 2008 at 05:20 PM
with LOVE and great Hope...k.
Posted by: k. | 05 May 2008 at 05:09 PM
with LOVE and great Hope...k.
Posted by: k. | 05 May 2008 at 05:08 PM
Corey, we will drink a toast to your father today, his legacy, his family, his spirit and all that the love that he left that will fill the void his presence left.
Posted by: Elaine | 05 May 2008 at 04:50 PM
Thinking of you this morning as you celebrate the eucharist and your father's beautiful life.
Posted by: Jenny Rebecca | 05 May 2008 at 04:41 PM
We are there with you Corey.
Posted by: martina | 05 May 2008 at 04:40 PM
I feel your strength Corey!!!
You are an amazing person.
How nice that your dad and mom are so well liked and known in their town. That must be a good feeling.
My thoughts, and prayers are with you on this day.
Rosemary
Posted by: Rosemary | 05 May 2008 at 04:32 PM
Sorry, I have been away, sick. But still thinking of you so much and holding you in my heart.
Posted by: Paula | 05 May 2008 at 04:28 PM
Thinking of you today...wishing you strength and peace in your heart.
Posted by: susanna | 05 May 2008 at 04:27 PM
I'll be thinking of all of you as you move through this day of celebration and goodbyes.
Posted by: Star | 05 May 2008 at 04:16 PM
We will all be there with you today in spirit as you are reading. Hugs to you.
Posted by: Wendi Kelly | 05 May 2008 at 03:57 PM
I am thinking of you and your Family today.
As I read your posts I am struck by the thought that our loved ones are never lost to us...they live in our heart.
I am sure that for all that listen to your eulogy today will see your Father in their mind and heart.
ooxoxoo Mo'a
Posted by: Mo'a | 05 May 2008 at 03:49 PM
Thinking and praying for you and your family today. So glad Yann is there with you! God Bless Love, Pam
Posted by: Pam | 05 May 2008 at 03:36 PM
Isn't it amazing how love is so tangible just when you need it. May today be a day filled with tangible love, arms to hold you and hug you, eyes to smile and see, and an unspeakable joy to cover it all.
Posted by: pottermom | 05 May 2008 at 03:06 PM
May peace and courage be yours today.
Posted by: Laura | 05 May 2008 at 02:44 PM
Will be with you today, thinking of you with your papa in my heart.
Posted by: Kitem | 05 May 2008 at 02:32 PM
My heart is with you this day, dear Corey. God bless you and your family.
Posted by: anna | 05 May 2008 at 02:29 PM
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Posted by: Irene | 05 May 2008 at 02:21 PM
Lean into the love
It's there to support you
it can lift you up so remember to lean into the love.
Posted by: Ellen Cassilly | 05 May 2008 at 02:18 PM
I will hold you in my thoughts and prayers today Corey. You, your family and of course, your Dad.
Posted by: My Melange | 05 May 2008 at 02:18 PM
:)
(((Corey)))
Posted by: angela marie | 05 May 2008 at 02:16 PM
I will be thinking of you today,
with love
xx
Posted by: Sheila | 05 May 2008 at 02:16 PM
You are in my heart and prayers today, as always.
Posted by: Julie Loeschke | 05 May 2008 at 02:14 PM